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#Relationship #Issues

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Some times in relations... The issue may not be the proximity but connection, Not love but Faith in love Not trust but commitment & assurance Not argument but lack of Dialogue Not Personality but Character building Not behaviour but emotional intelligence/soulfulness..... SoS(3/2/17) जीवन में उलझनों का, शायद इनमे हो, कोई कारण ?? जरा सोचिये! मुद्दा सामीप्य का न होकर , सानिध्य का हो शायद? प्रेम का न होकर , आस्था का हो शायद ? विश्वास का न होकर आश्वासन/प्रतिबद्धता का हो शायद? पारस्परिक विवाद का न होकर, संवाद का हो शायद किसी के चरित्र का न होकर ,चरित्र-निर्माण का हो शायद ? इंसानी स्वभाव का न होकर आत्मिक संभाव का हो शायद?? SoS(3/2/17) English Translation of the above In relationships, sometimes the core issue is not physical proximity but the depth of connection. It's not merely about love, but about having faith in that love. More than trust, it involves commitment and reassurance. It's not just about arguments, but the absence of meaningful dialogue. The focus shouldn't be ...

Inner Engineering!

Spiritual Maturity is..NOT to hold people and situations responsible for (upsetting) your peace of mind because you and only YOU are responsible for your happiness and peace of Mind and Soul. Walking away from people who seemingly threaten your inner peace, reflects on escapism....whereas accepting them, as they are ..will leave you with no grudge and thus your inner peace will be eternal.... Yes it is, practically possible to just accept the people as they  are ...when you start RESPONDING and NOT reacting!!! Regretfully, we are very capable of making mountain out of a mole!! This is where our thoughts create the situations. So STOP the negativity to build on and BREAK the CYCLE. To begin with, ACCEPT yourself as you are..i.e. a loving, kind & compassionate soul. To accept the people as they are, you must remind yourself that everyone is, not only different, but unique.They will do, what they do, because of their nature/social set up and environment. However, deep do...

Eternal Love

Me,"What is more important to you? Your love or others'/his/her love?" My Soul,"My own love...coz others' love is not in my control." More so, it is my inner feeling of love for...others...which is the source of joy and happiness...that nice feeling we go through when we think of our loved ones..even if we are missing them...there is a great sense of inner joy & peace, even in agony." Me,"But don't you feel happy when others show that care and appreciation of you as you?" My Sou l,"It only breeds ego and expectations.  O wing to this,  the joy of belonging, often becomes short lived. However, when it is your own love that matters, it becomes a source of eternal joy and happiness and makes you egoless.You become compassionate for others, when it is your own love... that matters" Before critiquing...take a step back and reflect!! # SOS   # EternalLove