#Love #Life #Soul #Liberation

We often associate pride when our children are humble and modest about their success. This is regretfully more of a trait in Asian parenting. Regretfully ? Yes, while modesty in moderation is good, too much of it could be detrimental. How?? Every time your child gets an achievement you congratulate him and say ,"Good Work! now you can aspire for higher." As in,"Dad I got first in my school race". Dad, "Good on you, with little more effort you can easily make through state level....".By using some motivating words you encourage your child to achieve the next level. So what is wrong in that? Ideally every parent should do that. This breeds the fighter spirit in your child...but deep down kills ...a sense of contentment...which is the true source of joy within.  You have subconsciously pushed your child in the zone of endless competition and ambition. Even if the achievement is top, it takes him/her forever to relate to it as a matter of pride and cel...

I want to be liberated by captivating you! # Captivate   # Liberated   # S oul I-Awakened Soul You- anger greed lust desire  Captivate-sign of conquering तुम्हे अपनी गिरफ्त में लेकर आज़ाद होना चाहती हूँ मैं ! # आज़ादी   # गिरफ्त  की मैं -साधू आत्मा तुम्हे-मोह-माया, क्रोध,अहंकार,लोभ  गिरफ्त-विजयी

#"Can't be bothered!"... This is a real recipe to keep stable and happy. No, it does not imply that I don't care..because that would mean, I am feeling negative with in or lazy. However, when I say can't be bothered, I am shunning away, undue stress and the focus is on, action rather than bothering.       "Can't be Bothered!"   So the moment you get a negative emotion- xyz, just remind yourself, "can't be bothered." Well, pressure is good, stress is not...yet no passion, is good enough, if you feel pressured or stressed.   Life is about celebration and calibration ....for eternal happiness from within.   External factors are just a catalyst but remember, it all comes, from within. So REJOICE THE VERY BEING....BEING YOURSELF..no comparison and no undue bother! Success comes naturally to those, who are happy inside because this happiness propels action, stamina and perseverance.   You enjoy, what...

What is more vital?? BEING POSITIVE ??   OR BEING REAL ?? While it is a great remedy to stay positive and feel happy, it is equally important to be real! Yes, do not stay under illusion or feed them because they give you short-term pleasure. For any long lasting happiness, you got to be real, in terms with yourself and life. In other words, you may want to consider the glass half filled, but remember not to ignore the fact of this glass, being half empty. Do not go on the sheer face value, of people. Remember there is duality and facad all over! So YOU… BE real!! It is about ending the duality of life. Try to bring the chords in the middle. The goal of life should be, to be awakened. Soar high into the galaxies but be on the ground. It will take a lot of time and effort to get into an awakened state   but being awakened gives you immense stability and eternal inner peace. Get right into the middle, in harmony between ILLUSION AND T...

Addictive- Approval, Acceptance and Appreciation "I will get their approval only till I do things their way." I will be called nice, till I do things for people their way, each day ..year by year. But the moment I will do it differently ..my way I will attract their resentfulness. Mind you, approval from others does not mean love. You do not need approval for love. So why have endless dependency on approval from others? How about SELF approval ? Try it out. Do what ever you do....but remind yourself, that you are doing it for YOURSELF..not for others. Only then you would enjoy the giving and sustain a healthy relationship, without the fear of judgement. In this process you begin to accept yourself and others, alongside, as they are. Be it on professional front or personal, it works wonders in nurturing the collegiality and efficiency.Isn't it true that your best comes out, when you do, what you approve of, from within..Is it an overstatement? People often call i...

Action? Reaction? Action! How to take charge of yourself and strengthen your will power to accomplish inner peace? 1) Meditate 10 minutes a day to harbor inner strength, 2) Exercise,  3) Sleep well and  4) Eat healthy. (Kelly McGoginal: The will power challenge) But aren't they obvious and scientifically proven tools?? They clearly emphasize WHY we should use these tools and how they build on our well being. Problem is HOW  do we build on these healthy habits? Where to get the motivation for these? To keep pursuing what we want to do and what we want to refrain from, we got to overcome the resistance in us. Resistance by switching the gears of our brain in tune with the route. By applying 5 seconds rule.(Mel Robbins)  For resisting what our core doesn't synch with, let the brain apply its auto-break, by holding back, for 5 seconds. Persevering resistance for 5 seconds can help us get over addictions and help us keep away from any of t...

   She asked you for love but what could you have given?    You were empty yourself!    ..You had nothing to offer.    What you had asked for....even she din't have anything to offer.    But being a giver at core, she tried hard...and gave a piece of herself....    each time you sought ...   In this process of continuous giving..she had self-actualisation.   She realised that the love she was seeking ..was her ..her own self.   She realised the futility  of seeking love outside..when she was love within!   Her search was over..with the eternal calm and happiness within her.   She was awakened and attained eternal peace because she loved herself now. #दानी #भिक्षुणी     उसने तुमसे प्रेम माँगा…. मगर, तुम.....  क्या और कहाँ से देते?        तुम तो खुद ही खाली थे ! और तुमने उस से जो माँगा ?... उसके पास भी कहाँ था वो? .... मगर मूल प...

  Why do we feel so insecure in ourselves? How to cope up? The major reason for any of our insecurities is...love?? possessiveness? envy?   No.... none of these!   It is primarily expectation and the fear of rejection! Yes, because we are all brought up in a way, that we associate ourselves... our identity with the external material. Right from our name to our work! It is the external that defines us.  In this mayhem, we lose ourselves, as us! The expectation bred, illusionary rejection, feeds the ego and thus envy, anger and greed. This is where we lose compassion, not only for others, but primarily, for our own selves. We constantly seek validation from others and thus lose our core. Hence it is all the more vital, that we learn to deal with rejection calmly and learn to feel complete, within ourselves.   For this, we need to know ourselves first. ‘Know thyself and accept yourself as you are!" This will facilitate acceptance of others too. At cor...

#Complete # Love! Isn't it amazing that we are complete in ourselves and yet incomplete? Yes, we are love coz the very essence of love is the realisation of that feeling... that deep joy we get, from the soul, within us. If we were not there, could love exist?? Love is because of us, not others.... Think if we were not alive/did not feel this love..... No matter how much someone loves us, would matter??   We are all love within ourselves just like rivers or the fragrance of flowers...however, unlike us, the nature has attained that level  of completeness within where it does not seek it outside. It continues to be the love and gives unconditionally! #Eternal #Love .

When everything matters, NOTHING Matters When NOTHING matters, EVERYTHING matters! Life is in every moment, so live it to the fullest... Life is a journey between what you have and what you don't. Irony is..the moment we get what we aspired for, the joy from that vanishes and we start off again.. .....in the search of..more In this journey the moment we lose..lose our ego.. our search of eternal peace and joy is accomplished coz we become the joy within ourselves. जीवन का हर सफर है, न मिलने से, मिलने तक ! जब मोह माया में उलझे रहते हैं तब आवश्यकता होती है शुन्य स्तिथि में आने की और जब शून्य भाव पा लिया तो, दया भाव से परिपूर्ण हो जाते हैं आप। #Nothing to #Everything #Nothing