#Relationship #Chemistry

H2+O=H2O

C+O2 =CO2

Or H2SO4…  for that matter!

Oxygen molecule when it forms a bond with Hydrogen the result is H2O

The same oxygen molecule bonding with carbon gives CO2.

In other words, the same molecules have a different bonding with different molecules and thus different outcomes!

 

In some cases, more oxygen molecules are required, and then in others, more hydrogen.

  Nonetheless, are these results, not complete in themselves?

Crux?? The end result is a matter of bonding …as in Chemistry.

 

Doesn’t it hold likewise, for the chemistry of our relationships too?

Keeping aside the gender bias, we are bound to gel or bond differently with different people. Thus each one finds a unique positioning, in our lives.

So why do we feel insecure, if our partner bonds with others? As long as our position is intact in their lives, and they do not mix up, there should be no reason to feel insecure or upset. Although expecting the position is also a sign of possession.

Each individual, in our life, caters to our unique requirements and for sure, we will never get it, from one person alone. Yet we can hold a complete relationship with each one, in their unique allocated slot of our life. More so, as long as, we are mindful of, not letting encroachment of these spaces or mix up the positions, of each unique soul. This does require a lot of clarity among all.

Also, the ethos of mutual respect & care must be maintained. Do not ever belittle one, owing to the other.

Love only surrenders and gives freedom. Yes it surrenders ego (not self-esteem) and sets the loved ones free, such that, they are ever willing to come back home, at the end of the day. Understand the fact, that it is unreasonable to restrict the fragrance of a flower.

So nurture lifetime healthy relationships with open heart and soul!