Are You #OKAY?



          Are you Okay with YOU? 

If the answer is, ‘yes’ …. great! It is time to  look around and see how you can adorn, yourself further, by nurturing qualities that add value to Project “YOU”! 


However if the answer is, ‘NO’ it is time to review your relationship with YOURSELF. Your first responsibility is, towards your own self. So respect and love yourself before you could love others. Accept yourself, as you are and then consider value additions, that enhance your inner joy and peace, in harmony with your true core. The core that is essentially pure and loving. Only one, who has these attributes, can give to others and feel okay with oneself. More so, you can not give, other than, what you have...and remember, just like you, people are willing to accept, useful gifts only. In other words, everyone, at the root level, has the same desire of being loved and respected.


Make the world a better place, take a #look at #yourself and #make the #change!

         #Work in #Progress 


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  1. AnonymousMarch 4, 2021 at 4:05 AM

    It's so important. In todays busy world too often the message is 'you could do better' or 'you are not enough' so it might be hard to accept who you are and love yourself for the same reason...

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    1. soul mentorJuly 22, 2021 at 2:50 AM

      This is where the challenge lies. Since we are not true to ourselves, we are internally weak and thus succumb to other's perceptions and expectations. May be it would be worth asking one question at that point..can you fulfil other's expectations all the time? That too for all your dear and near ones? More so our emotional juggle starts primarily for our duality of being progressive/growing on the material front and along side our bid to be idealistic. So go on an explicit date with your self and focus on your qualities/strengths, just as you would do while dating someone else. Happiness is matter of choice.

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